Committed Relationships – Overcoming Blame, Hurt and Judgment


What is the core spirit, belief system and behavior that you carry in your life? This is what makes up your love story and love habits, which is what your soul has learned.

Your soul chooses your personality (introvert, extrovert, the country you were born in, your body, your natural gifts, etc.) the story of your parents and your life so that you can learn how to overcome love challenges.

Sometimes love and relationships don’t pose challenges for you Logical understand.

When viewing emotions it is useful to understand why the soul chose these feelings and what the soul and the person have come to learn. Through understanding, you can give meaning to your suffering, but not to suffering.

A person also chooses a certain Body Some lessons to learn – and this is choice based or what they need to learn or what you need to help you learn.

I teach how to talk and talk with your body and how to balance emotions so that your love life is freed from suffering from old love habits that you do not live the love you want.

In these times of “shift” from the old paradigm to the new paradigm, many couples are experiencing high levels of dissatisfaction as male and female models are moving away from being certain to be flexible.

We are still anchored in the heart through love, but male and female roles are said to surrender to what we expect of the other person to perform or perform, so that we can become higher forms of love Which are not constrained by our society. And instead, connect to universal and unconditional forms of love where we look at the whole person and without acknowledging what our mind can think or want of the other person.

Higher forms of love are now available because the planet is evolving into higher consciousness, which the planet never had access to before. ‘Shift’ means that relationships are changing in their dynamics. Couples are being challenged to rise beyond their estrangement and disenchantment to ask what love really is – individually – or as a couple. As a result old fears (from this life and past life) are surfacing where no one else All The pain will be experienced again – so we can let them go, heal, understand and forgive.

Couples at this time have received more support from higher forms of love which now support the planet to do so within relationships. As a coach, I help couples and individuals and groups learn about this and teach them how to support themselves and / or their partner as chronic injuries must be recognized and finally processed .

I do not believe that if someone “fails” in a relationship that they are not loving themselves efficiently or ‘enough’ or they are missing a process that will sustain their lover or save the relationship. This is what the linear and logical mind would say as a way of measuring success by physical reality. Love is not measured by experiencing life without pain, breakup, conflict, sorrow, or happiness. Love is measured by how you respond to upsets, problems, sorrows and how you respond and come back with ways to accept your love and hurt yourself, heal it and move forward Huh. Hurts do not disappear without some reflection and awareness. However often forgiveness cannot be forced. Begins with readiness to forgive where you have been very harsh on yourself and others and have resisted the very openness that will allow forgiveness.

Relationships are not living together because we and our society fail to provide people with a place or opportunity to deal with injury.

So my recommendation for those of you who want to move your relationships on a brighter note and more love is by not pointing fingers at others and feeling their own hurt and asking themselves what they did, The first thing to do is to start – “What am I feeling”? Then once you allow yourself to feel and feel, you will notice a tenderness – perhaps sadness – or a large amount of emotions. Then ask yourself “If I was going to love myself, what would I do about this feeling?”. You start the process of change, which is not about doing – but to change those feelings Is about what prevents us from doing, creating and realizing who we are.

When we build a nutritional approach and practice for ourselves, we will have to face the hurt within and accept it. And then the person will be able to let it go and come into their relationships with joy, acceptance and a deep, safe space and can share that person with whom you want deep intimacy.

Start asking questions about how you can be more accepting of those parts of yourself that are too quick to criticize, stress, or expect others to be ‘right’. The more ease you can give yourself, the faster you will spread to the people you love.

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