Building great intimate relationships in life takes time and commitment. If you choose to spend time and you choose to commit then you will definitely create a relationship that will give you happiness and satisfaction. Some of the keys to building great relationships include:
Connect with someone you love
Make time to remind your soul that they are special. Write them a note, send an email, SMS or phone during the day during work. Do something that you know will be meaningful to your partner. Make sure your efforts will not go waste; Connect with them keeping in mind their love language. Be intentional about making a daily connection in the midst of your busy life.
plan your time
The old saying ‘plan to fail and you’ll plan to fail’ is true when it comes to intimate relationships. Planning your time has great importance in building great intimate relationships. The average couple is so busy with work, catching up with friends and other responsibilities that sometimes in an established relationship you may fail to plan to spend together. Check your calendar every week and keep track of time when you are together. Be intentional about spending casual social time together and also about spending quality time in bonding with your soul. A regular ‘date night’ is a great idea.
Be aware of your intimate relationship
Many times healthy jealousy is very important in relationships. If you are not going to protect your intimate relationship, who will? Do not let yourself be in situations that compromise the integrity of your relationship with your partner. Always remember that soul relationships can last forever- make sure your partner’s emotional needs are being met. Do not take each other. Your relationship is important.
Don’t forget special occasions!
Use your diary or reminder function in your mobile phone; Pay attention to birthdays, anniversaries and special events. Talk about important events and make sure the expectations of both partners are the same. Unnecessary expectations can cause unnecessary tension in the relationship. If you want to get away for your anniversary then make sure your partner knows! They are not mind readers. It seems that this spontaneity and romance can take everyone out, but discussing such issues for a long time will result in a stronger relationship with your soul.
Introduce surprise to your relationship
Like to surprise your partner, and you have time, there are many ways you can surprise them. Arrange with your boss that they will take an extended lunch break and take them out to lunch, send flowers, a card, chocolate — the options are endless and can really add spice to your life together. Interrupt the mundane with a surprise and you will be surprised what it does to your soul relationship.
Run away with your friends
If you are in a stable relationship, make sure that you have not become exclusive with your partner and have lost all your friends in the process! This is a common mistake that couples make when entering a relationship. In the beginning everything is new and very exciting and before you know it you have neglected an old friend since high school. Friendship is important and it is healthy for each other to have their friends in the relationship and for each other. It brings diversity and makes the heart strong as time passes!
Be your fellow student
If you are in a relationship, you need to become your partner’s full-time student. Make it your mission to learn everything there is to know about them. Their likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, how they relate to others, how they feel most loved. When you focus on yourself and your needs and focus on your partner, you will find that you are in the process of building a great relationship. As you focus on your partner, they will become more focused on you- it is always better than achieving!