As I prepare to sit here and write, I already know that this is going to be a controversial article, but what is life without a little controversy? Over the course of a lifetime, many wonder why many of their relationships are not long-term. They gave their all, and put their heart and soul into it, just to give everyone air, exhausted, and start all over again. The truth of the matter is how it should be, because 99 percent of all relationships will fail. However … they will all succeed.
As you read I can only imagine that look on your face. Yes, 99 percent of all relationships fail …. I don’t mean to say I’m shallow and don’t think a relationship can work, because it can, but the question is That … how long?
Relationships are not built as a lifetime loving nest where you live happily. They are designed to teach you something. In the learning process, love can come, love can be, and love can go. But regardless of how it turns, there are already piles against you. When you meet someone, it is 99 percent that the relationship will fail.
Think about that first love. For some, they were good memories. Now my question is: where is that person now? Let’s be honest How many people do you know that they fell in love with the first person? Most people have since been with very few people. However, there are some people who are still with the same person, which leaves me to my previous question: How long? There are many people who have been married for 25 years and yes, it is a special thing, but that does not mean that they were not together. This could mean that over the years, they had just become accustomed to each other and just accepted things for what they were. If so, this relationship is not successful. Neither of the two are really happy, they just accepted something. There are also people who have been married for 25 years, and are divorced. But on the other hand, it is that 1 percent of people are happy and deeply in love, and will never be happy.
When you grow up, you are usually tired of sports and are ready to meet and settle with that special person, but this is not always the case. You go date after date and wonder why you haven’t met the “one” and start to wonder if something is wrong with you. That is when prayers are offered to God. And it would seem, the more you pray, the more failures you have.
If you are in a bad relationship now, ask yourself why? How long have you been in a relationship? Finally, why are you still there? If someone else asks you this, and when you answer and see the “deer” in the headlight, it’s usually because your answers only matter to you and no one else. You are trying to do something that is not going to work.
Not everyone you meet and establish a relationship with is someone you stay with for a long time. Everyone comes into your life for a particular reason. The problem arises when you try to take that temporary person and make it permanent. A person to whom you come into contact with purpose may be just to teach you one thing and when you are taught, its work is done. However, one of the problems is that you keep moving around and go through unnecessary pain and stress because now you don’t want to let him realize that you have developed a lot of that thing called love, but it Do not realize that you will meet other people who will teach you other things. Some will teach you how to love, how to feel pain, how to overcome, and how to be strong, just to name a few. You will also meet people who are not there for you, but love your children, your friends or someone else. Whatever the reason, everyone has their own special purpose in your life, but when you ignore all the negative signs, you change it and try to make it more than it should be.
Life will take you though many twists and turns. At some of those turns, you should go left instead of right, which will show you a different path, which was not possible for you at that time. But, regardless of which direction it takes you, it will definitely take you into the relationship. And, 99 percent of the time, the relationship will fail, but … the purpose of the relationship will always be successful.